I love a good game of chance. At least, in theory, I love a good game of chance. But it’s like impact play, really. It’s really hot to think about it. I don’t actually know why that is. But, then when the time approaches, I get very nervous and if I wasn’t careful, would excusify my way out of it happening. Then of course when it’s happening, well… instantly after, just… wow. Too many levels to unpack right this instant.
There’s just a lot wrapped up in that.
These games of chance with Charmer are similar. I love the idea. I love the thought of totally random, unplanned games that can be everything from fun to super challenging.
When she walked out that morning and put down the dice, getting her tea, I pretended I didn’t see it. There simply wasn’t any other reason to wander out first thing in the morning with a D&D die – and I was now in that nervous stage, wondering what was up.
[Charmer: Ha. I wanted you to see it and wonder…]
Maybe if I ignore it, she’ll forget? Ha! Continue reading “Games of Chance”
Snake is always a bit cautious when I bring out a die and tell him to roll it. Sunday morning I did and got back, “Why?” Continue reading “Seven”
THE GAME started last Wednesday. Just a simple one to start the year. Scrabble, and who doesn’t love Scrabble? Continue reading “One Week In”
Coming off of a very complicated year and two worldwide years that changed our view of just about everything, it’s time for less. Continue reading “The Goal: Simplify”
I saw this quote and it just made me laugh because I have THAT memory too.
Continue reading “F is for Flashlight”
You think you can
hurt my feelings?
I used to hold the
flashlight for my dad.
When I first started thinking about this prompt, all of the quotes talked about making sure you have low expectations to avoid being hurt or disappointed. While that way be true for the “outer world,” I don’t want to live that way within our marriage and dynamic. Continue reading “E is for Expectations”
OK, Charmer, this month is supposed to be about summer and the best you’ve got is popcorn? Continue reading “P is for Popcorn”
I love the ocean. Actually, I love watching the ocean, walking along the beach in ankle-deep water, and listening to the ocean. Swimming in it? Not really. Continue reading “W is for Waves”
Since I have been with Snake more of my life than without him, picking songs becomes a challenge because there are so many. Continue reading “Soundtrack of Charmer and Snake”
Snake and I tend to take quite a few short trips each year. Several to visit family as well as one or two that are just for us to get time to reconnect. Continue reading “We Miss Traveling”
I am spoiled. Totally admit that. Snake takes care of most of the house chores except cooking and he does that on Saturdays if we are cooking at home. Laundry, cleaning, garbage and lately even grocery shopping. Continue reading “Expectation of Service”
Hey….Yes, I know. We’ve been absent. Life has been crazy here just like with everyone else in the world and we just needed some time to hide and try to figure out any sort of normal. Continue reading “Dipping the Toe Back In….”
I’ve written about my mother several times, at least here and here. I almost did the really lazy thing–see yesterday’s post–and just linked up one of those for this prompt. Continue reading “Mothers and Grandmothers”
The past few weeks have definitely been a challenge with writing. I’m not an inspired writer without something to play off to begin with and the inability to do my “normal” messes with my head. Continue reading “Blogging and Writer’s Block”
There are always so many myths surrounding D/s and FLR. So many come from books, TV and movies–they get it wrong so much more often than they get it right. Continue reading “Myth Busting by Charmer”
Content warning: Deals with current events and 9/11
Boundaries are a struggle for me. I tend to go either too loose or totally tighten them down. I don’t compromise very well with them at all. Continue reading “Boundaries”
Yes–we did finally finish the game that I started on the 6th…. It ended on Saturday night with my backrub and happy ending. Continue reading “Anniversary Scrabble–The Results”
As I mentioned on Twitter, work got crazy right after we got back from Las Vegas so I had to postpone the game for a little bit. It still hasn’t eased up and I don’t see that happening for the near future so I decided that we need the game to carve out a little time for us. Continue reading “Quick Scrabble Update”
I was conducting serious research over what to write today–some might call it scrolling walls and timelines, but I prefer the scholarly view–and found this. Continue reading “Random Thursday Thoughts From Charmer”
I’ve never been the traditional sports person. I know — I’m *so* traditional in all other ways. I did the ballet thing for a year when I was little, twirled a baton for a minute, hiked, tennis with my dad and Tae Kwon Do in high school. Yes, the occasional recital or competition, but nothing really. Continue reading “We Don’t Do Sports, Do We?”
The crowd goes wild. Snake cringes and hopes that I will lose the handy bag of tiles that are stored in a brown paper wine bag from our trip to Sonoma a few years ago. Continue reading “Anniversary Scrabble”
Snake and I have been together for a couple of years now. Just a few. We dated, then we married and had a few date nights here and there. Life gets busy and you figure, “Hey, we see each other all of the time–we don’t need dates.” Continue reading “The Importance of Dating”
I think I have mentioned a couple of times on Twitter and in the blog that Snake and I have been doing Keto for close to two years. We’ve both lost over 50 pounds and feel a lot better. Continue reading “Chicken Tortilla Soup”
I’ve never had what I considered a lot of friends. I’ve always been more of a few close friends and a lot of people who I like to do things with. They are casual friends but not the ones who would get a call if I needed something. Continue reading “Friendship”
When I started to think about writing for this prompt, I knew that my answer to “Is home a Place or Person?” had to be both. At least for me. Continue reading “Home is Where You Love”