“Do me a favor, please?” She says, turning to me randomly while we’re watching a show. “Of course!” I say.
“Could you please start and get my coffee ready, and Irish Coffee please, and start my bath water and come back and let me know when it’ll be ready?”
Weird way to ask, but sure. “Of course!” I get the water going, and get the bath started with a towel out and bath oils in. Weird timing, but other than that, I’m not thinking anything of it.
“Should be good to go in a few minutes…” I say, returning. I start to sit down, but she looks at me with this strange look. I stop. “What’s up?” I say.
“I’m going to need you naked with cuffs and collar on, please. Then return here.
I pause. “Now,” is all she says. And she goes back to watching the show. Continue reading “There’s a Remote Chance…”
I love a good game of chance. At least, in theory, I love a good game of chance. But it’s like impact play, really. It’s really hot to think about it. I don’t actually know why that is. But, then when the time approaches, I get very nervous and if I wasn’t careful, would excusify my way out of it happening. Then of course when it’s happening, well… instantly after, just… wow. Too many levels to unpack right this instant.
There’s just a lot wrapped up in that.
These games of chance with Charmer are similar. I love the idea. I love the thought of totally random, unplanned games that can be everything from fun to super challenging.
When she walked out that morning and put down the dice, getting her tea, I pretended I didn’t see it. There simply wasn’t any other reason to wander out first thing in the morning with a D&D die – and I was now in that nervous stage, wondering what was up.
[Charmer: Ha. I wanted you to see it and wonder…]
Maybe if I ignore it, she’ll forget? Ha! Continue reading “Games of Chance”
Snake is always a bit cautious when I bring out a die and tell him to roll it. Sunday morning I did and got back, “Why?” Continue reading “Seven”
If you remember, we started November with a new game. He needed to get a hand that beat mine in poker in order to earn two O’s. Or pay the price. Continue reading “R is for Results”
It was the last day of Locktober and what was the perfect way to end the month of tasks? Continue reading “S is for Sweat”
Yeah, I know. TECHNICALLY it’s not a “letter” thing for the Snake Den.
It’s ok. I’ll go with it.
So, there we are, just rousting out of bed on a Saturday morning. She rolls over, then rolls over again, now on top of me.
Grinning. Continue reading “1 is for 150”
He got the text to unlock and put down the blanket while I was in the tub. Of course, I hadn’t given him any indication that it was a play night earlier. Continue reading “Was it Something I Said?”
Curiosity in this thing we do… is dangerous. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve made a passing comment about “did you see that thing on that blog?” – I don’t often mean it as more than a “huh, that’s different…” and yet quite often, I’ll get a message back that simply states…
“Get it please.” Continue reading “Curious… as a cat”
I’ve been going through a longer-term review of a few chastity cages in hopes of providing some additional information about cages, differences between them, food for thought, etc. HolyTrainer is the first of these – and I’ve spent a good deal of time wearing, comparing, and looking at the device. Continue reading “HolyTrainer v4 Chastity Cage – A Review”
I’m in the middle of reviewing a couple of really great devices, but I’ve learned something surprising in the process that’s pretty important when it comes to sizing, figuring out considerations, etc. Continue reading “Chastity Device: A-Ring Sizing Lessons Learned”
Charmer has been experimenting. Again.
Edging is one of those things that fit in the “frustration, but hella fun” category. It’s bizarre, difficult to manage at times, and overall, it’s a very demanding thing (don’t you feel sorry for me? ) Continue reading “To the Edge and Back… and Back Again”
Looking back at October, and at chastity in general, it’s bizarre to think it’s been something like 6+ years of full-time for Charmer and me. We’ve learned a lot, we’ve had some interesting debates (both with us and from outside folks) and we’ve seen this kinky twitter and blogging space roll back and forth as different things sweep through, chastity being one of them. Continue reading “Locktober… and Chastity Overall”
Locktober is a way for us to have a little fun with something that isn’t just a once a year thing. Continue reading “L is for Lock(tober)”
Rule is that the cage is on…but it’s cleaning day. Continue reading “C is for Cleaning Day”
Our blog is almost exactly 6 1/2 years old. It’s been a journey of D/s and photography with a lot of laughter and games thrown in the mix. Continue reading “S is for Steeled Snake”
It’s important to be well-dressed when you head out to work, yes?
I mean, proper shirt, all of that. Continue reading “T is for Tails”
Snake wrote the other day about 100 edges. We had been doing a boot camp weekend which we do from time to time and he had been doing a really good job of anticipating and following directions. Continue reading “E is for Edgy”
“Get undressed and unlock.” She had “that look.” Continue reading “R is for Remote”
Just as I send pictures to Snake each morning, he sends at least one a day to me as well. I say at least because there are days when he is is tasked with sending a lot more than one. Sometimes just because and sometimes they are proof if he has a specific task to do. Continue reading “Z is for Zipper”
Chastity has been a really interesting physical and thought experiment run with me. We’re now into this full-time since 2015 – this grand process of FLR, D/s and the chastity cage. I never really anticipated what it would be like, the impact it might have and the cool learning it’s lead to. Continue reading “C is for Chastity Cages and D/s”
Improvement is a tough one. It’s hard to talk about improving something with this thing we do, without making it all mechanical and such. At least, for me that’s the case.
At the same time, it can be really effective over time – you may look back in the future at how, why or when you did “this or that” and realize just how much things have changed. Here’s a quick look at how I try to keep this all swimming around my head. Continue reading “Improvement (not as in home-improvement)”
We do have a pretty substantial orgasm gap in our relationship. The unusual part is that our gap is definitely in my favor. Continue reading “G is for Gap”
Influence is a weird beast to consider. When you think about those that have an impact on your life, it’s all over the board. The good, the bad, the bad-at-the-time-but-good-looking-back-on-it ones. Continue reading “S is for Surprising Influence”
“That’s not the mug I set out for you this morning,” you say as you watch me pour the water for my tea. Continue reading “M is for Morning Mug”
The Scrabble game started last Friday and ended on Thursday. In case you missed the tweets, here are the rolls: Continue reading “R is for Results (Scrabble That Is)”