FLR, D/s, Life and Kink
Needs. Wants. How to figure out which is which and even more important, how to balance it all.
I wish I had a good answer on how I do it. I don’t think that I do it all that well at times. I think that I confuse my own wants and needs quite often. I might think it’s a need, but is it? Or do I just want it so much that I think that I need it?
Continue reading “Charmer’s Thoughts on Balancing Needs”The sun was out and there was nothing on the schedule for today. We decide to take a drive and then go for a short hike. Packing a picnic lunch, we head out.
Continue reading “Sunday Hike”Things are pretty much back to normal shenanigans in the Snake Den–hope the first full week of January has been good to you! Here are some fun images and words to brighten your weekend.
Continue reading “SoSS 13”The easy answer is that I know it when I feel it–but it isn’t that easy. It comes in a lot of shapes and sizes, some passing quickly, while others stay for a lifetime. They are all unique and yet…
Continue reading “What is Intimacy?”Priorities are always a struggle for me. Personal relationship ones are easy. I tend to love spending time with and doing things for the people in my life.
Continue reading “Charmer’s Priorities for 2020”We had planned some extra time for us at the end of our family trip. A three hour drive and we are in a seaside town. We check into the B&B and head to the ferry.
Continue reading “What to do on an empty ferry…..”Between travel and holidays and a really annoying bug, the Snake household has been pretty much out of commission for a couple of weeks. Sorry about the skip last week, but we are back on schedule now.
And without further ado, here’s some sexy writings and images for your pleasure…
Continue reading “SoSS 12”On the last day of the year, we thought we would do a recap of the favorite pictures by popularity for each of the months. So, without further ado…
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 13 — A Year in Pictures”Sometimes, when the holidays get to be too much, you just need to build an old-fashioned blanket fort and hide away….
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 11 — Blanket Fort”With this crazy time of the year, take a little time for yourself and enjoy these images and writings that we loved this week.
Continue reading “SoSS 11 — AKA Bawdy Bells 6”The Christmas piece of this prompt never really applied to me. Yes, we put out cookies and milk for Santa and got a gift on Christmas morning. And, yes, I was told when I questioned if he was “real,” that only kids who believe got gifts from him. But, it was always more of an embodiment of the magic of Christmas rather than a person so it never felt deceitful to me.
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 5 — Lies?”
“The party starts at 7,” you say, pointedly looking at me. I am currently on the bed, tea in hand and naked.
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 4 — Charmer is Always Right”Isn’t that always the case? You are decorating and think everything is done and then you see one last thing you forgot.
Continue reading “Bawdy Bells 2 — You Forgot These”Here are some great images and words that caught our eye this week–check them out!
Continue reading “SoSS 10”I admit that when we first started our path through D/s and FLR, rewards and punishment weren’t on the top of my mind. Partly, I think because our relationship had history where Snake tends to do what I like and he rarely fights anything with me unless he feels really strongly about it.
Continue reading “Rewards and Punishment from the Charmer Side”It’s that time of year. Decorating and cooking and shopping and wrapping seem to take up too much of the play time.
Continue reading “Tie a Ribbon Round the…(Oak Tree)”First week of December is over already–wow! Here are some of our favorite writings and images from this week.
Continue reading “SoSS 9”*This was originally posted in December for Food 4 Thought but it fits in well with the current Book Matters. And it is a fabulous children’s book!*
I was so excited to see this prompt because I am a reader. I rarely leave the house without my Kindle and bath time is always spent reading. And it’s a great day when I can slip some time in during the day as well.
Continue reading “A Wrinkle in Time”Today has been a day of list making and trying to knock a few things off the list. I have lists for me, lists for Snake, and more lists for work and life. Just as I cross off a few, I always end up adding another to the bottom.
Continue reading “Defining Charmer”We start to get ready to go walking through the lights of a very festive neighborhood. The rain that had been threatening all day decided to leave so it was a perfect clear night.
Continue reading “Strolling Through the Lights”Here’s a list of some of the writings and images that caught our eye this week. Hope those of you who were celebrating had a great holiday!
Continue reading “SoSS 8”Date night is usually dinner out or maybe take out and a movie on the couch. It’s not really about the where as much as it is about getting some time together.
Continue reading “Just a Little Strip Poker”If you don’t live in a hot dry climate, you may never have seen a dust devil. They are like a mini tornado that come out of nowhere, spiraling dirt and other debris into the air and then are gone. Once in a while they cause some damage but usually they are just a nuisance.
Continue reading “Charmer as a Dust Devil”The room has incredible vaulted ceilings with windows and a skylight. All of the light floods into the room and I think about how beautiful it will be at night to see the stars.
Continue reading “The View From Below”Here are some writings and images that we really liked this week. Enjoy!
Continue reading “SoSS 7”