We thought about writing a post summing up all of the posts in June–but it is summer and Sunday and decided that the pool was too inviting.Continue reading Summer Lovin’
Having some fun with splish-splashy times here in the Southwest of the US.Continue reading Sinful Sunday – Topless Eruption
The weather has definitely turned here and we’re headed into the summer days of sunshine and heat.Continue reading Boobday: A Hint of Pool
And Snake has obviously missed his favorite game. So, being the benevolent leader who I am, I am going to let him play it again. What are the rules and challenges this time?Continue reading It’s Back….Scrabble That is
I’ve been thinking a lot about how D/s and all of this has woven into our lives – it’s a huge piece of our responses, our reactions to thing that happen in daily life. And, you also see it literally everywhere in the kink space – from Fetlife to Twitter and other spaces. People lean on their D/s side, their kink side, to help right the ship of life when things get choppy.Continue reading Near Misses and Kink Orbits
This is a second part to Charmer’s post, here.
I don’t get as many questions about things as Charmer does – but I do get a lot of assumptions. I get assumptions about what it means to be in an FLR with D/s structure and how it all works for us. It’s odd how people will see a video, read a story someplace and assume that that’s both reality and the same for everyone.Continue reading Snake’s Perspective: Lifestyle D/sFLR
Oh, you’re a Domme? I get that question at least a few times a week. However, it is phrased, from genuine interest to titillation, there are definite assumptions made about me, Snake and us. Some true, some false and some downright laugh out loud funny.Continue reading Charmer’s Perspective: Lifestyle Dominance
One of my, er, assignments… is to to share more pictures. I’m a much more shy snake than Charmer…Continue reading Sinful Sunday – Anyone need a towel? (Snake)
It’s another boobday here in the snake pit…Continue reading Boobday – Drama!
There have been memes and life and I haven’t had time to give the results of the second round. I’m sure it has been in the back of your brain, keeping you awake at night so, here goes….Continue reading Results of Round Two of the Game
I always see these checklist of stuff that people (may) like to do, be, participate in, have done, whatever. I’m sure you’ve seen them – my favorite was a Periodic Table of Kink where it showed, by “type” different things people may be interested in. My OCD loves that it’s broken into the different areas and ideas.
But, of course, as soon as you start really looking, you find that there are so very many things (let alone Rule 34) that people like to do. You can see this on Fetlife too – 1000’s of kinks, from situational to objects to every combination you can imagine.Continue reading Finally Figured Out My Kink
You know those memes where you do a quiz to find out which X you are in a movie/TV show/book, etc.? One of the ones that I’ve talked to friends about several times is Grease.Continue reading #F4TFriday–What I Want to Be When I Grow Up
First, happy Father’s Day to all of you out there getting it done, helping out with families, taking care of the more important things in life – your partners, your families.
Second, just a heads-up, this won’t be about sexy times… just about life and influences and some reflection. I think it’s really fascinating to see the influences and how they play out (including in our own FLR) over time. For pure sexiness, check out Charmer’s Sinful Sunday. 🙂Continue reading Father’s Day
“Sometimes I just sits and thinks…”Continue reading Sinful Sunday: Sexy Thoughts and Reflection
Some insist there are no plants in the desert, just dust, dirt and yes, horses everywhere.Continue reading Boobday: See? Desert Fauna
Just a quick game update: So far for round two, we are 2:1 on wins so it’s very close. And Snake has 3/7 ruined O’s under his belt (get it?) so we are making progress with my win from last round.Continue reading Gratitude and Dominance
When I walk into the hallway, all the lights are on – there are even additional lamps out there. So much so that the light is blaring at me. All I can think is that this must be the weirdest setup to whatever you have planned, that I have ever had.Continue reading You’re in… Dark.
The prompt for “Food for Thought” this week is mistakes. Had me thinking about all the things I’ve learned about our FLR that I didn’t expect, about the whole D/s side of our lives that we’re always tuning and tweaking…Continue reading Mistakes I’ve Made In Our FLR
I have lived in the desert for most of my adult life, but I have to think that the change in seasons might be as clear other places.Continue reading Change in the Air
The prompt last week was soft focus (so we shared a shot through some interesting netting fabric). This week is another from that same bit of work…Continue reading This time, with focus
Once again, boobday – celebrating all things Boobs!
I love that this Food for Thought Friday ties to George Orwell and 1984. This was one of my favorite books as a tween. I was raised by a father who thought that all small children should be read classics and I vividly remember him reading Kim by Rudyard Kipling to me when I was 5. So, it is no surprise that I read all of the classics that I could find.
I don’t have a lot of fears. [Snake: I can vouch for this – from a sexy-time perspective and a life perspective] I do seriously dislike jumping bugs. I hate driving but definitely more of a control freak issue. Anything I can’t control as much as possible makes me uncomfortable. But I can’t say that it goes to fear.
There was a point where, once we finally plunked down just a little bit more for that 4,235 point restraint system, I realized it was for real. I remember it pretty clearly. Before, it was like “yeah, I can move, I can even probably pull loose and stop things if I wanted to, just… because.Continue reading But it’s a simple chain!