I don’t know if we have ever told the stories about our pen names, to be honest. The names actually came before we started the blog because we needed Twitter handles.Continue reading C is for (Steeled Snake) Charmer
“I need you, inside me, now. “
I was high as a kite hearing that. It was early in the morning, we had the house to ourselves, she has THAT look in her eyes. I’m raging against the cage, needing to feel her, wanting to feel her.
“Unlock. Get back here.”Continue reading D is for Denial… Torture
MMMmmmmmm… She says in her sleep… I think.Continue reading C is for Chastity: That Overnight Pressure
I’ve been doing this chastity thing now for several years – and life happens along the way. I wanted to quickly share something I’ve had to re-learn just recently.Continue reading Realities of Chastity – Suddenly, it is Chafing!
As a Domme, I am all about discipline. We have rules and expectations that are clear and pretty straightforward. Exceptions, of course, for life but for the most part, our D/s life runs smoothly.Continue reading D is for Discipline
I’m going to put out a really unpopular opinion or preference or however you would like to characterize it. I don’t like salmon.Continue reading S is for Salmon
Hope everyone is taking care of yourselves and each other–and here are some things to distract in a fun way.Continue reading SoSS 23
Last post of February–and last Feb Photo Fest picture of 2020! Hope you’ve checked out all of the wonderful images from everyone this month. Here are some writings and images to brighten and inspire…Continue reading SoSS 20
It’s been a great time in the city, we’ve been having fun finding bars, clubs, music, bands, places to play machines while taking in the sights and sounds and so much more. Tonight, we opted for a trip to that famous country bar up the road – the one with the bull, the saddle bar stools and, last time we were there, the mud wrestling…Continue reading A Night Out on the Town…
I wanted to play around a bit with the wand… There is so much more fear than sensation with this particular approach – but the mind-game is real. Very real.Continue reading Chastity Lightning
Another week gone by–here are the things that caught our eye in the Interwebs this week.Continue reading SoSS 18
It’s a weird thought that we’re several years into this all now. I can’t believe all that has changed, how much I’ve grown up mentally, how much I’ve learned about me, about us.Continue reading Hand Porn and Chastity Cages
“I dunno whut happened, I was just strolling along and … BAM!”Continue reading Chastity Cage, Caught in a Net
You nuzzle in, scooting up against my chest and shoulder as you settle in for the night against me. I swear, at times like this, you were a cat in a former life and I can almost hear you purring. It’s wonderful, relaxed and delicious to fall asleep this way.Continue reading I Cancelled Your Appointments
Someday I hope we don’t have to be as careful about all of this stuff we’re collectively interested in. It’s weird, if you stay in our relatively small comfort zone bubble where we interact with others with the same acceptance, their own interests, etc. – it all becomes ok.Continue reading Someday, Will We Flaunt?
Things are pretty much back to normal shenanigans in the Snake Den–hope the first full week of January has been good to you! Here are some fun images and words to brighten your weekend.Continue reading SoSS 13
I have said it before – I love the ways that all of this thing we do can be done. Flavors of a theme, different “levels” or activities, different approaches. All of it so finely tuned to what works for you and your partners, it’s pretty cool that there is this assumption that “well, yeah. There’s this thing, but you have to figure out the details for you in what you like.“
Take the good ol’ chastity cage, for example. There’s everything from “rivet that sucker in place” to “we use it for play time” and none is better than any other. It’s what works for you.Continue reading Motivation, Chastity and Life
Photo courtesy of Focused and Filthy
Welcome to Elust 125–
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #125? Start with the rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Body Talk & Sexual Health
Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Books and Movies
The cage is a bizarre thing. It means different things to different people. How cool is that? Different people use it in different ways – it feels different to them mentally and physically than anyone else.
Sure there are similarities. There are root things like bondage and control and all of that. But if you read the blogs, you’ll see, it’s never exactly the same.Continue reading Chastity Cage and a Zipper
Here’s a list of some of the writings and images that caught our eye this week. Hope those of you who were celebrating had a great holiday!Continue reading SoSS 8
Photo courtesy of Discovering Kink
Welcome to Elust 124–
The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #125? Start with the rules, come back December1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~
Continue reading Need some amazing reading? Check these out!
Sometimes it’s fun to send a surprise image, sometimes it’s fun to see if you can catch people off-guard.
For those that follow along on Twitter, you know Charmer has a great deal of fun sending to places where I have to know I have a message, but may, or may not, be able to actually read/stare at/gawk at in the moment.Continue reading Look… I cleaned the bathrooms…
“I’m feeling really lazy, and like, well, switching things up,” you tell me. “And besides, I like to watch you. So… here’s the deal. You get to cum!“
I smile. Then my brain kicks back in and I realize there must be a catch. There’s always a catch. Some weird twist on things or some other tweak you’re putting in the mix.
I’m not wrong.Continue reading You’re Going to Have to Work for It…
Minds are an interesting place. Or, at least in my case, MY mind is a strange place. I am constantly looking at this or that picture or video or reading a post or story or book and thinking….
Oh yeah? Well, what if we went to the next step? What IS that next step? What would that be like? How would that work… then my brain devolves into this animal mode thing of irrationality and obsession…Continue reading The Things We Do …
Sort of answer the first, with the second. But suffice to say I think I’d be classified as “kinky” and I can vouch for Charmer holding that banner as well. Weird thought, interesting label, but it got me thinking about that. Well, that and a series of posts about Chastity (think diamonds) and so much more.Continue reading Do you… Kink? And What is Locktober/Chastity About?