D/s relationships redefine the term “come hither” – when the rope or chain is coiled, the clips are out and the cuffs are nearby, “come hither” has all sorts of new meanings…
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday #35 – Come Hither: Redefined.”
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D/s relationships redefine the term “come hither” – when the rope or chain is coiled, the clips are out and the cuffs are nearby, “come hither” has all sorts of new meanings…
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday #35 – Come Hither: Redefined.”
Ah, the little bunny is so cute all nestled in there! So warm, cozy…
I think I’ll stop there. Otherwise this turns into a Masturbation Monday post!
Continue reading “Boobday! Bunny so cute all nestled in there…”
This last weekend (March 19th) is my one-year anniversary of getting my PA – my Prince Albert piercing. I wanted to follow up the other posts about this experience and give everyone an update. Luckily, this isn’t about kids turning 1, so no huge array of pictures to endure. 🙂
There’s a link in the top menu bar to the other PA posts if you’re interested. From just before to time since… it’s all there.
The PA has been, overall, a great thing. I don’t say “overall” to take away anything from it. I’d do it again in a heartbeat.
Here are some interesting bits I’ve learned over the last year…
Continue reading “Prince Albert Piercing / PA – turns 1 year old”
When you live in the desert and summer means triple digit temperatures and air conditioning, spring is the perfect time for some sun and fun.
It takes a lot of work to keep up with everyone on Twitter. THIS is what I get to look at as she tweets and emails and comments and… It’s so difficult. Such sacrifice.
Photo courtesy of Penny’s Dirty Thoughts
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We’re celebrating and thought we’d share a last picture of our jaunt to Vegas to goof around, see a show or two, eat way too much, drink funky drinks, wander and play.
It’s been a great time – March Madness crowds were extreme, but we had a blast.
Here’s to another amazing year in the books!
Continue reading “Anniversary Times in Vegas – Wine, Charmer and Song”
Snake and I are in Las Vegas celebrating our anniversary. We got married at the beginning of Spring Break because I was still in college and that gave us a week for our honeymoon. Of course, it also coincides with March Madness…
We’re enjoying some R&R and time out of town. I thought the view from our room was pretty magnificent! No, really – there are some great high-rises there … in the distance. You can just make them out.
I was standing there, getting ready and Charmer saunters in, pulls my belt from my pants and walks briskly off down the hall. I followed. That was my first mistake.
I’m sure you know how it is. You get up, you mindlessly wander to the shower and try to jump start your engine to get the day going. The warm water, the ritual of getting presentable … it all comes together to help.
So, there I am. I’m in the shower, washing my hair. Trying to turn on my intellectual lights. As I’m scrubbing away, I suddenly hear the shower curtain pull back, you grab me by the waist and place me in the corner of the shower, out of the stream of water, suds in my hair, eyes closed.
Summer is arriving early this year (good gawd please don’t keep getting hotter and hotter though) and that means… BIKINI ON CHARMER!
Continue reading “Sinful Sunday 32 – Bikini and a Moscow Mule Anyone?”
Last night was one of our rare nights alone with no dance lessons or practice. So, of course, it was time for some teasing and play…
We had to do our photo for #boobday so that’s always a fun tease to begin the night. Snake gets to be behind the camera and take lots of shots and be a professional. No touching, just looking. And, sometimes, you know, it does take a while to get the right shot.
Trying to decide on a photo for today, I thought that I would play with teasing Snake a little. He seemed to enjoy the view…
I really love my day collar from Charmer – I wear it essentially all the time. It’s just an innocent(!) symbol of our lives together and I’m proud to have it.
When we first saw the February Photofest post, we both couldn’t imagine doing a photo every day for a month. It seemed beyond daunting, but we decided to jump in and just commit to it. It’s been challenging some days, silly some days, but always us.
We went to the Renaissance Festival yesterday and I thought I’d share Charmer’s outfit – some may have seen this on our Twitter feeds yesterday. I love that she dresses up and we have a lot of fun with it.
*Posting a little early this week because this sexy gypsy and her adoring fan are off to the Renaissance Festival for some frivolity*
Sometimes, like Friday night, Snake has to work late on a critical project. On nights like those, I like to remind him that I’m waiting and wanting…
As we wander into the play area, you’re already grinning from ear to ear. I can tell you’ve been thinking about this for awhile, and have ideas about what you want to do. Pretty unusual since you’re more of a “by the seat of your pants” type, but every now and then, you’ve planned things out in detail in your mind’s eye and this is one of those.
Closing and locking the door you walk me to the center of the room, put on my wrist cuffs and attach a chain, sit me on a stool you have there. When my hands are up over my head, just enough to stretch well, you attach them to the rings. I’m sort of dangling there, twisting a bit trying to get relaxed into the tug on my arms.
It’s funny… Charmer is like “what do you say? It’s boobs.”
To which I say, “Exactly. Boobs.”
I’m sure you know what I mean…
For our Throwback Thursday, we chose a photo that we shot for a friend who wanted to see my cowboy hat. It seems fitting since the rodeo is here this weekend…
The challenge was thrown down by AdventureAwaits – so, challenge accepted. 🙂
Since we live in the desert, snow is a pretty rare thing. And because the temperature here today was 80F/26C, it’s even more unlikely tonight. But it’s still a pretty sight…
Handing over control is a powerful idea for a lot of guys – chastity goes hand-in-hand with this – you lock it up and hand over the keys and voila! She runs your life, makes the decisions, and things are wonderful. It’s exactly as you imagined it.
Except that’s not how it goes. The reality is you’re two people. You have to work out how you’ll work together, how she’ll make decisions and more. But most of all, she gets to run the show. On the surface, that’s the point. At a deeper level, it’s a huge change.
Today is Monday – #MasturbationMonday of course. But Charmer is a firm believer in lockdown – and making sure I know exactly where things will be staying.